Poor Jesse Jackson foolishly whispered something negative about Barak Obama in a live microphone yesterday. He had to apologize for it because it was broadcasted everywhere. That had to be embarassing. The solidarity presumed between these men was suddenly torn. I bet Jesse Jackson wishes he hadn't said what he did about Obama. Foolish words. I guess this is a lesson in keeping one's thoughts to oneself when speaking about another. If you wouldn't want them to know you think what you think, then you probably ought not to verbalize to others the truth in your heart.
"You are snared with the words of your lips, you are caught by the speech of your mouth." Proverbs 6:2
Then there are the times, you say something you don't really mean. Ever say something in jest that you wish you'd not said? Ever wish you could take back that comment? I have. Just yesterday, I was with a group of friends and a couple of strangers. I made, what I considered a playful, comment and within seconds I wished I'd not said it. I hadn't realized that it might hurt another. And when I saw that it created discomfort, I was sad. Not for me. But for the other person. I would not have hurt this person for the world. Yet, in the relaxed environment of chatter and banter, I think I did. I've since apologized, but this taught me again how very vital it is to guard my words and to think, think, and rethink before I speak.
Just the other day, I made a commitment to speak words that encourage, edify and bless. Yet, as soon as I make the commitment, I turn around and say something that can offend. God is teaching me. I'm being tested and proven. I failed yesterday. Hopefully I can do better today. selahV
[coyrighted, SelahV Today, 2008]
