How in the world do we do that?
One thing is certain--we cannot do it alone. Oh, people can be successful by following their own regimens to meet a goal, to master a portion of their lives-- to rid themselves of a bad habit, or solidify a good habit. But to actually live victoriously in the face of defeat and woefully frightening circumstances? people need more.
We need more than a close friend, a wise counselor, a tutor, a physician, a financial advisor. We need God-- the Omnipotent all-powerful, Omniscient all-knowing God. In Him and through Him we live life victoriously. He is enough to meet our every need for victorious living. Thus it is important that we:
"Be still and know that I am God". Psalm 46:10
Be still; be still; be still. Stop thinking about your pressures, your anxieties, your problems, your difficulties. Take a few minutes and be still. Center your mind on God. Know that He is, has, and always will be God. We aren't. Our ideas of what life should be is not necessarily how God knows it to be, nor how He wants us to see life. Even when the things we do are seemingly "good" things. God still may have a different path on which He expects us to walk. We may not understand it, but our responsibility is to walk as He walks and where He wants us to walk.
"Lean not to your own understanding"...instead-- "in all your ways acknowledge-- [receive, give recognition to, obey and yield to]-- Him and He shall direct your path." Cease your struggling. Cease questioning. Cease resisting. Cease pulling and pushing and shoving and grappling. Cease. Be still and know. Cease believing in your own wit, wisdom, and winsome ways. Cease and desist--halt what you're doing and do not take it up again. INSTEAD...
Seize God and ingest Him--consume, take in and rest in Him-- no matter what waves break upon your shorelines. Trust Him--bathe your mind in what you know in Him to be true as you are "still" before His throne of mercy, love and grace. Remember God doesn't want us to do anything apart from Him. Remember what Jesus told his disciples after He was crucified? Wait until the Spirit comes and indwells you and empowers you. Victorious living is not struggling-- it is resting in Him and His ability-- not our own. Be still and know. God is and always will be God with you. selahV